Day 1. Current Relationship

Well I am currently single. and all depending on when you ask me, i either am completely content being single or cant stand it. what pisses me off is that people never see "being single" as a choice that you consciencely make. like what if i'm taking this time to become more mature or secure and comfortable with myself and who i am. but no people always assume that you're single because no one wants you or your too ugly or too shy or too whatever.